Eventually, everything connects…

Well, I am pretty sure that by now you already know that blogging and social media is all about being connected and having that virtual relationship. And when people ask about how they can get more blog visits or followers and get great engagements, these are the only things that I can come up with to help guide you. I am of course no expert but in my experience, the most crucial part of being a successful blogger is being able to maintain a relationship and staying connected with readers and followers. Mind you, it is not an easy task. It does take a lot of time and a ton of extra effort.


Produce and post quality content. People are now more knowledgeable and developed a certain taste in the content they want to see so so creating original content that is both creative and visually pleasing can surely draw in a lot of interest. Making sure your photographs are on point makes a huge difference and not only will it grab the attention of readers and gain you new followers, but it will also ensure they keep coming back for more.


We all know how difficult it is to be regular on postings but being consistent surely helps. Learn how you can manage your time so you can set a schedule that will work for you – when to shoot, when to post, etc. It is all about having a good balance. Look at it this way, if you have not posted anything in weeks or months, what makes you think you still have readers that will hang around? I know I lose interest. Sometimes, completely even unfollow and don’t visit sites anymore that has not been updated for a long time, simply because I need to move on to something else and I think that is just a normal circulation of things. There is nothing wrong with that but I also think that we should not expect people to hang around, waiting for us.  Regular readers and followers expect posts from you and if you lose touch, they will too.

Tip: I admit I sometimes get behind with my schedule and that is of course ok because we surely have to know our priorities. But because this has been a huge part of my life, I also ensure I make up for it and try my best to organize things and my time so I can produce, connect and still enjoy a good balance of my blog, work and personal life.


Don’t be a random ghost follower. Your HEARTS are not enough honey. Put the effort and comment on posts – share your opinion and your thoughts. Your voice counts, most especially to the blogger you are viewing. Engagement is what you are looking for so do engage. Make sense right?! Remember that engaging is a great way to connect, build and maintain a connection with readers and followers, both old and new.

Tip: Because instagram has changed their setup, I personally take the time to visit my favourite grammers on a daily basis to stay updated. So basically I do not just depend on the home feed to see what is new. 


When you reply back to your readers and followers, it shows that their comments matter to you and that you appreciate them for taking the time to visit and commenting on your latest blog and instagram post. This is a two-way street after all and it is always nice to show that you do care enough and value their time.

Tip: I usually put in a few minutes before I post a new post to reply to all the comments on my previously posted blog. It also helps if you have your notifications on for your blog and instagram so if you are not particularly busy, you can easily respond to comments immediately on your phone while you are on the go. And if ever I do fall behind, then I try my best to catch up whenever I am not too busy to ensure I visit my faves and respond as much as I can.


Visit your favourite blog sites, instagrammers and vlog channels on a regular basis but don’t just settle with what you have on your bookmark.  Explore and discover new people to follow and get inspired with new feeds that interest you. The best thing about this is meeting new people. Great new people that can you can probably get inspired by, learn from and build relationships with.

Tip: Visit the profiles of those who leave their comments on your blog and feed, you may just like what you find.

Hope my tips can be of great help and if you have any additional notes on how to get more engagement and build connections, then do comment down below. I would love to get your thoughts on this and hopefully learn a thing or two from you as well ❤️




Photography by Princess Lovella





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  • Such a beautiful outfit!!!! Love it!!! The article is very interesting and useful.



    • thank you my dear daria ❤️

  • Cool look!! Love it!

  • Jodi-Kay Edwards

    These are great tips and I couldn’t agree more! I’ve noticed that with my blogging friends we have this circle of support. I comment with my link they comment with theirs and it helps to keep the rotation going. I love your outfit too all grey everythang!

    • thanks hun!! and yes that is so true, communicating and connecting is key ❤️

  • Kier Mellour

    great tips and I agree! PS I so hate the new IG algorithm! ughhh

    With love from Florida,

    Kier Mellour


    • hi sweetie hahah dont worry too much about the new IG algorithm. it wont affect you as much if keep the connection with the people you do love to follow more ❤️

  • Pam Scalfi

    consistency is tough, especially when youre as busy as i am planning a wedding (less than 3 months) but its ok! It is all about prioritising things in life 🙂
    Pam xo/ Pam Scalfi♥

    • hi pam! true, it is tough most especially if we have other priorities but that is ok hun, we all have the right to choose where our time goes more and well, family will always and should always come first. cant wait to see your wedding ❤️

  • Amazing look and such a useful inspiring post!
    Kira Is Wearing

    • thanks luv it is always great to put together articles like this ❤️

  • Great blog post! Very helpful! Totally love your fringe top too! =)

    – Cielo
    Mermaid in Heels

  • Such good tips for the new year- and how cool is that fringe top? Love it, lady!

    Le Stylo Rouge

    • heheh thanks sweetie!!! catching up on the blogs is an amazing start of the year ❤️

  • these are great tips . . . some of them I am doing some of them I need to do more of! Thanks for the inspo

    Life is just Rosie

    • thanks rosie good luck with it hun ❤️

  • Great tips! I really needed to read this I really should stop ghosting tysm!

    xo | Cindy

    • thanks cindy!! and yes, the hearts are super great but it would be even better to catch hold of your thoughts and opinions too coz it does make a difference ❤️

  • Marj

    blogpost and outfit on point!

  • Irene

    love the outfit!so beautiful pictures

  • Eliana Borges
  • Great look, you look so comfy and chic!


  • Len Dela Peña Parent

    Love this look on you! So much gorgeousness doll. Happy Wednesday!
    Much love, Len

    • thank you so much len!!! sending over kisses ❤️

  • Beautiful look! Nice pics 🙂

  • I’m always a big fan of finding new blogs to follow and read! These are great tips for staying connected!

  • Love you look, such a fan of your photos and style selection 🙂

  • Siffat Haider

    These are such great tips, girl! Also, I adore your outfit. The fringed top is so gorgeous!

  • Laura

    Great tips! I find it so hard to post the same time everyday, so I have ended up just posting in the evenings. Maybe one day I can be more regular with the time though.
    I love the outfits and the pictures 🙂

    Pink Frenzy

    • thank you laura!! ❤️ im sure you can work out your schedule soon enough, something that will work for you perfectly!

  • Vivian Tse

    Happy 2017 M! I hope you had a wonderful time with your loved ones 🙂 This is such a great post for those who want to stay connected! Love your outfit too! It’s so chic! xo, Vivian

    • thank you my sweets sending over my love! ❤️

  • Dressed With Soul

    This is such a cool combo with the fringes!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

  • Ania Zarzycka

    Wow!! You look beautiful dear <33 lovely look 🙂

    me on FACEBOOK


  • Style hue

    Your tee is really cool and I agree on all your viewpoints. Haha love the ghosting title. I’m not the best at commenting on people’s blog, but I always respond.
    Your so right about it all taking time!


    • thank you sweetie heheh i never used to do it but as soon as you get the hang of it and open up more and reach out more, it is absolutely heart-warming ❤️

  • Jewel Clicks

    I agree to all your points. 🙂 I love your outfit they look so comfy. 🙂 xx


  • It’ll be nice to have lots of followers but if i can have 1 follower/reader who follows because she just wants to follow and not for any other reason then i’ll be happy, xx Bing.

    • hi luv, i think it is should never be just about the follower/reader, or numbers. i believe its a good balance of both, having people follow or read is assuring to us that our voice, our vision reaches and touches people and at the same time, we value them coz they in turn inspire us to share more and build great relationships with each other, much like what we have, we have been following each other for a bit now and apart from the people who are in my life, i love being able to converse with you and other people, it is just amazing! ❤️

  • Ellese Launer

    These are wonderful points! Thank you for sharing. XO, Ellese


  • Nice grey outfit and that bag is seriously pretty. I agree in everything you mentioned, I like instagram and would hope for more engagement but it’s really hard to maintain it though. Is it ok to ask, how much time a day you allot for instagram? Just a rough estimate will do ;-))

    • thanks sweetie!! i dont have a set time or schedule on instagram. i try to post new content two or three times a day but i dont really follow it all the time coz if i dont have the content that goes perfectly with my feed then i let it go to ensure i maintain the quality of my posts. but basically i go on instagram when have a few moments to spare during the day, be it in between coffee, computer breaks or when im in the car on the way out so i do my posts and replies then ❤️

  • Martina Favaro

    Love your outfit, your post are always so inspiring!


    • thanks luv appreciate it ❤️

  • Love this post! It’s so true that thanks to IG’s latest algorithm you can’t depend on the home feed any longer. Engagement is key to getting eyes on your own content!

    Chow Down USA

    • thanks luv and yes, it will all depend on us to continue the circle and supporting each other and ensure our content gets out there ❤️

  • Awesome post, I love the outfit in the pictures. So true, I find commenting on other people’s posts and replying to comments on my own blog is a great way of staying connected, making friends and finding new blogs that you love. Thanks for sharing, have a great day!

    xxxx from Emily //

    • thank you so much luv!! ❤️

  • Christina Key

    Super beautiful look! 🙂
    I LOVE your hat, looks so great on you girl!


  • Agreed. It’s a challenging one for sure dear.
    Which is why I’ve always believed that every established blogger out there deserves everything they earned x
    Those midnight oil, undereye bags and pressure!
    Happy New Year love.

    Viviene Kok

    • so true…i admire them for being able to manage it all coz it really is a lot of hard work ❤️

  • This two piece set is so chic!

  • SOOO in love with the look!

    All the Cute

  • you’re so right with all of your tips and I really know how heard it is to interact regulary (sometimes it isn’t possible at all, but I try) . what a wonderful post my lovely friend and again YOU look just stunning 🙂

    • thank you my luv! and i think the most important thing is we try ❤️